Aug 19, 2015
Clara the Ninja has joined our family as of Sunday. She is very affectionate and energetic. She likes running laps through the house, playing with everything she can get her paws on, eating plenty of tuna and assorted raw meats, sleeping with Mom and Dad and staring out the windows. Her dislikes include being told "No" and a dirty litter box.
Aug 3, 2015
Sometimes when we go to visit David's parents his mom treats us to lunch at her, and our, favorite Mexican restaurant.
They serve the most delicious Pico de Gallo.
Last week Sarah, David and I went to visit, Daniel was at work, and she treated us to lunch. Of course we were all enjoying the Pico and I finally had the presence of mind to ask if we could buy a pint to bring home. So we did and Sarah and I ate most of it the next day.
I looked some recipes up online to get the gist of how it was seasoned then made it myself. It came out so tasty! Here is what I did:
about 2 c diced white cabbage
1 sm shallot diced
1 lg jalapeno diced, seeds removed
6 plum tomatoes diced, seeds removed
cilantro leaves finely chopped
about 1 tbsp. lime juice
about 1 tsp sea salt
1/4 tsp garlic powder
Mix it all up and let it sit for an hour or 2 before serving.
I think this is something I will keep on hand as I can eat it in place of coleslaw.
Aug 1, 2015
What good does holding a grudge toward someone do? Not. One. Thing!
But you know what? It hurts YOU, the grudge holder. It festers in your soul and you become bitter and hateful and spiteful. Certainly not something I, as a follower of Christ, want to have in my life.
So what do you do? Someone has done or said something to hurt you. Maybe it was intentional. Maybe not. But you still feel hurt, offended, angry, bitter.
What does our ultimate authority, God's Word, say about this?
English Standard Version
31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
5 Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. 2 And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
How do we "put away" something like bitterness or anger? What does this look like in our daily lives?
I had a pastor once tell me to pray for a person that I had confessed to him had done something that bothered me. It wasn't anything sinful but it was really bothering me and causing me to have hard feelings. He gave me very simple advice. Pray. Every time this person enters your mind pray for her.
Over the next 2 weeks I found myself praying for her several times a day. She didn't know that what she had done had bothered me. She didn't know that I was harboring bitter feelings toward her. But I did and I knew it was sin on my part. So I prayed for her. At first it was hard but over time I found myself really and truly praying for her out of true Christian love for her as a sister in Christ.
So that is my advice when someone angers you. Pray for them and as you do Christ will soften and change your heart to be more like his.